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“gay" 在英文里是同性恋的意思,所以无论男同性恋或是女同性恋,他们都可以说 “I am gay!" 非同性恋的人则在英文里称为 “straight”。在亚洲,我几乎感受不到同性恋群体或是同性恋文化的存在。如果一个男孩子谈吐举止太女性化, 我们顶多说他是“娘娘腔”罢了,但是绝对不会将这种个人风格上升到性取向的高度。在美国可就是完全另外一回事了。在这里,如果一个男孩子说话嗲里嗲气,喜欢像女孩子一样蹦来蹦去,或是动不动就伸出兰花指,完了,他不需任何解释与辩解,一顶“He is gay" 的大帽子马上就会扣过来了。饺子有一个朋友TOM,人人都告诉我他一定是gay, 只不过他自己不承认罢了。后来我问那些觉得 TOM是gay 的美国朋友,基于什么样的理由他们会认为TOM是gay, 他们举出了如下一些理由: 1 TOM 说起话来语调特别高 (high pitched)。2 他从来不会主动介绍他的女朋友给大家认识,一天到晚神秘兮兮的。3 他冬天的时候总是戴围巾。( 美国男生无论冬天多冷,都会坚持抵制围巾,因为他们觉得只有女生和同性恋男生才会戴那玩艺儿。)4 他不喜欢打保龄球,因为他觉得这会伤了他的手。5 他喜欢电影 "Amelie" (中文翻译成‘天使爱美丽’),在美国男生看来,那是只有女生和同性恋男生才喜欢看的电影。6 他的业余爱好是painting (画油画)。7 他的叔叔就是gay, 所以他的体内有gay的基因。8 ... 他们还有好多千奇百怪的理由,反正是越说越荒唐。最近,TOM有了一个新的女朋友,还向大家主动介绍了一番。我本以为这样一来,那些觉得TOM 是gay 的朋友们该闭嘴了吧,人家喜欢的可是女人,但是,饺子的朋友们更加觉得TOM 是gay了,因为他们认为TOM急需掩盖自己的性取向,所以才急匆匆地找了一个女朋友。现在恐怕只有我一个人在为TOM 叫屈了。 所以在美国,作为一个男孩子,如果你缺乏阳刚之气,那么,对不起, 你就经常会被莫名其妙扣上一顶“you are gay" 的大帽子了。从tom 的事上,我渐渐发现,美国人特别喜欢给别人帖标签,扣帽子。如果你的某些举止行为不被他人理解,或是与他们头脑中所固的你应有的形像不同,(比如说, straight man 应是如何,gay man 应是如何)他们就会感到很不舒,于是,他们会给你上一个标签,把你归入你应该属于的组别里,然后告诉他们自己,噢,原来如此。这样,你的行为就可以被名正言顺的解释了。 美国人形形色色的给人下定义的准则太多了,当然,他们管这些叫做“stereotype” (模式化的见解,老套,旧框框)。尽管老美也知道,用这些条条框框去给个人下定义是以偏概全,忽视个体的差别,但是在社会上,这种现象仍是大行其道。尤其是美国媒体,很多电视节目和电影都在无形之中强化了同性恋所应具备的形像。其中有几个在美国很火的节目。其中一个是“queer eye for the straight guy ”。这个节目在香港曾经播出,港式译名为 “粉雄救兵”。它每一集主要讲述5个各有专长的gay guys 如何将straight guys (非男同性恋) 从里到外加以改造。说到这里, 我又不得不谈一下美国人眼中的gay guys 的形像是如何的。当然我说的仍然是stereotype。 不一定所有的gay guys 都是这样的。"gay guys" 的公众形像一般是: 1 对时尚,潮流特别有见解,有品味。2 通常他们对穿着特别有讲究。一般的美国男生就是上身T恤,下身牛仔裤球鞋。而gay guys 绝对不会。他们的衣总是经过精心搭配,看上去特别有格调, 绝不会显得邋邋遢遢。他们会穿丝绸的衣,而一般男生不会。3 他们喜欢去健身房做运动,因此体形非常好。他们不介意穿紧身上衣,因为那样更可以凸显他们的身材。而且他们中有很多人非常英俊, 因此,在美国,有些女孩子在夸奖他们心仪的男孩子时会说 :“you are too cute to be straight”(你太英俊了, 不可能不是同性恋!) 还有一些美国女孩子告诉我,她们曾经爱上过gay guys 因为那些gay guys 实在长得是太帅了。原本她们以为可以用她们女性的温柔对那些同性恋男孩子加以改造, 但是结果总是无功而返。听着她们那一声声叹惜,你就可以想象那些gay guys 的英俊程度了。4 他们的感情都很细腻,与其他男士相比,gay men 通常更加善解人意。此外,他们通常和女孩子很合得来。在“粉雄救兵”里, 那五个gay men 每人都有自己的拿手项目。有的人负责为所选的那位straight man 选择发型,饰;有的人为他改变家居摆设;有的人教他如何从饮食下手,提高生活质量。总之, 这5个gay men 会各显神通,用gay men 特有的精心与细腻拯救一个又一个大大咧咧,毫无品味格调的straight man。 美国近几年在热播电视剧 “sex and the city” (中文译名为‘性感都市’或是‘欲望都市’)。这部电视连续剧从四个单身女人展开,以每个人的情感经历为主线,探讨了美国单身女性对爱情,婚姻及性的看法。在这部连续剧里,美丽的Carrie 和Charlotte 都有一个gay friend (同性恋男朋友),时刻守护在她们的身边,为她们出谋划策。随着"sex and the city”的流行,时下里很酷的生活方式就是交上几个gay friends。很多女孩子认为这是有百利而无一害的。首先,gay men 对女士没有兴趣,因此,女孩子们不必担心他与她的交往是“别有用心,另有企图”。其次, 女孩子们完全可以将她们的gay friends当作“蓝绿知己”,互诉衷肠,就像女孩子和女孩子那样。还有就是,女孩儿们又多了一个可以与之一起疯狂购物的男性朋友。下次,如果你在商场里见到一个女孩儿挽着一个男孩的手,兴致勃勃地选购衣时,可不要想当然地认为他们是情侣,因为很少会有非同性恋男士 对与女友一起购物感兴趣。一般来说,美国男人一提起逛商场便会无精打采的。Recognising your own handwriting rather than remembering a password could be used for online identification, new research shows.Your handwriting could be the best form of online security, say the developers of a new system that may one day replace difficult-to-remember passwords and PIN codes. With the new authentication program Dynahand, users just need to be able to recognise their own writing."I know it's my handwriting, but I don’t know how I know. I can't explain to somebody else how I do it," says Dr. Karen Renaud, a computer scientist and lecturer at the UK's University of Glasgow. She argues that's what makes the system more secure than coming up with a standard password, which is repeated over and over at different sites, can be shared with a friend, or stolen by an adversary.The system works using handwritten numbers instead of letters because although others may be able to recognise your penned words, they're not so good at distinguishing your handwritten numerals.In the laboratory test, Renaud asked 11 people to write the numbers 0 to 9 several times. She asked other volunteers to provide samples of their numerals, too, but these were eventually used to distract the study participants. She then scanned the numbers into a computer and used a software program, or algorithm, written by colleague Elin Olsen, to analyse the characteristics of the handwriting, such as height and width of strokes. The algorithm also kept track of which numerals belonged to which person and whose handwriting was more similar or distinct.At authentication, the program showed the participant a series of five-number handwritten PINs, each one randomly generated from the handwritten numerals. The number was not important and the user did not have to remember it. Instead the participant clicked on the PIN written in his or her handwriting. If they got it right, the program showed them another set of PINs. They then clicked again on the correct image.The program shows the user four sets of PINs, which takes about 28 seconds to complete, but ensures a higher level of security than just showing one set. And as with other PIN-password system, three wrong attempts and you're locked out.In the test, 10 of the 11 people recognised their own handwriting consistently. Although most of the people got it right, 11 participants is a low number to demonstrate the effectiveness of the technology, says Steve Furnell, professor of information systems security at the UK's University of Plymouth. "But the idea itself is very interesting," he says.In addition, although Renaud does not believe that this password method is robust enough to be used for sites with high-level security, such as online banking or e-commerce, it could work as a second layer on such sites, e.g., when you are changing an address or credit card information. /200812/58752Women may be better at sniffing out biologically relevant information from underarm sweat, a US study suggests.美国一项研究显示,女性通过腋下气味识别生物性相关信息的能力很可能更强。Researchers found it was difficult to mask underarm odour when a woman was doing thesmelling, but quite easy to do so when it was a man.研究人员发现,用其它气味来蒙蔽女性对腋下气味的识别是比较困难的。相比之下,男性则更好蒙骗。They speculate that a woman's highly attuned smell radar might help her select a mate.研究人员由此猜测,女性敏锐的嗅觉可能有助于她们选择适合自己的伴侣。The study, by Philadelphia's Monell Center, appears in Flavour and Fragrance Journal.由费城蒙尼奥研究中心组织的这项研究成果已经在《香料与香味杂志》上发表。 In the study, women and men rated the strength of underarm odours, both alone and in conjunction with various fragrances.参与试验的女性和男性分别用鼻子去闻两组腋下气味,一组是独立的腋下气味,另一组是腋下气味与其它多种香味混合而成的气味。The fragrances were selected to test their ability to block underarm odour through a method known as olfactory cross-adaptation.研究人员利用嗅觉交叉适应的方法来测试他们辨别腋下气味的能力。This occurs when the nose adapts to one odour, and then also becomes less sensitive to a second odour.采用这种测试方法是因为一旦鼻子对第一种气味适应之后,它对第二种气味的判断灵敏度就减弱了。 Sniffed alone, the underarm odours smelled equally strong to men and women.当男女在闻独立腋下气味的时候,男女的辨别能力旗鼓相当。 But when fragrance was introduced, only two of 32 scents successfully blocked underarm odour when women were doing the smelling.但是当腋下气味中混合了其它香味的时候,32种气味中只有两种腋下混合气味让女性无法成功识别。 /200904/67511Attractive fathers do not pass their looks on to sonsAttractive fathers do not pass their looks on to their sons but they will hand their good looks down to their daughters, research shows.In a study of family photographs, psychologists Professor David Perrett and Elisabeth Cornwell - now at the University of Colorado have found that while both father and mother can influence the attractiveness of their daughters, the couple's good looks do not necessarily contribute to the attractiveness of their son as an adult.Handsome men with masculine looks are likely to pass on masculine features, but not facial attractiveness.The theory suggests it is not unusual for attractive parents to produce a beautiful daughter while failing to pass on the same good looks to a son.While many celebrity mothers produce stunning daughters - such as Goldie Hawn and her daughter Kate Hudson or Jerry Hall and her daughter Georgia - the same is not necessarily true of celebrity fathers.Sean Stewart, the son of Rod Stewart and his first wife Alana, would probably be judged less attractive than his model sister Kimberly."We can't see a strong relationship between the parents' attractiveness and the sons. If the parents are supermodels, the chances are the daughters will be lookers," Perrett said.Prof Perrett said it has previously been suggested that a woman could increase her own reproductive success by choosing a "sexy" mate whose genes would be passed on to male offspring, making them irresistible to the next generation.But the new study, published in the current edition of the journal Animal Behaviour, contradicts the theory.He said: " When we looked at women's faces, we found clear evidence that attractiveness passed from both father and mother to daughter. For the male line, we find that facial masculinity conforms to the rule 'like father - like son'. Masculine dads have masculine sons.But we did not find any evidence that facial attractiveness is passed from father to son." /200904/66177The average Briton can make 10 meals from scratch without having to look at a recipe, a survey suggests. 调查显示,多数英国人不看菜谱就能直接烹制的佳肴共有十道。 Spaghetti bolognese is the most popular dish, with 65% of people saying they know the recipe by heart. 最受追捧的当属意大利肉酱面,65%的英国人表示这个菜谱已经烂熟于心了。 The traditional roast dinner comes in second place with 54% of people able to prepare it unaided. 排在第二位的是英式传统烤菜,54%的人可以轻松烹制这道美味。The survey, commissioned by the UKTV Food channel to mark the return of its Market Kitchen show, involved questioning 3,000 people. 这项由UKTV食品频道委托进行的调查共走访询问了3,000多人,调查结果在该频道的“市场厨房”节目播出。The survey suggests the average cook is more comfortable preparing foreign dishes than British classics at home. 调查发现,英国人居家做的多半是外国美食,而非本国佳肴。 /200904/67890

41 因为沙滩印著我俩的足迹because there are our footprints in the sand beach42 因为只有你肯陪我看恐怖片because only you like to accompany me to watch horrible movies43 因为你曾为感人剧情而哭的淅沥哗啦的because you were ever moved to tears by the play44 因为我们侧夜长谈分享彼此because we talk all night and enjoy each other45 因为我们是天生一对because we were born of a couple46 因为爱过你就好because it is fine of experiencing love you47 因为只愿等你一个人because I only want to wait for you48 因为有你我看到美好的未来because you make me see the beautiful future49 因为有你我看到了其他人羡慕的眼光because of having you ,i see the envious sights of others50 因为你让我体验了爱情的伟大because i experience the great love with you51 因为你的善良because of your kind heart52 因为有我就有你because where there is me ,there is you53 因为你让我感到身为一个男人的骄傲because of you ,i am proud of being a man54 因为任何事与爱你抵触者无效because nothing will happen,if it is contradict with loving you55 因为除了我再也找不到另一个与你相配的男人because except me you can't find another perfect match56 因为我们俩曾互许终身because we ever promised to be life-long companions57 因为我们要做七世情人because we plan to be lovers of generations58 因为我要带你环游世界because i will show you around the world59 因为我要让每个地方都留下我俩的回忆because i want every place to have our two person's memory60 因为我要继续写爱你的理由because i will continue to write the reasons of loving you  /200812/59937

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